Private House Parties

Next Private Party

SUMMER INFERNO

Themed after Dante’s Inferno, this party will explore the 9 circles of Hell and provide punishments & entertainment for all those wicked souls who dare to enter!!

If you have not yet been vetted to be invited to our curated house parties, please submit the vetting form to get on our invite list.

Previous 2023 Parties

BoundHouse has started with a series of Private, Curated House Parties – to bring together vetted & like-minded people in the SF and Central Valley kink/fetish community. We strive to create an atmosphere of inclusion, exploration and entertainment. We have had great success thus far, and wish to continue to host these private parties to build community ties with kinksters in the SF Bay area…and eventually get our own commercial space to open a club to bring together the alternative, BDSM, fetish and kinky communities. We provide a safe, open and exciting experience…come dip your toe and apply today to be invited to an upcoming party.

BoundHouse Rules of Conduct

  1. Do not engage in any BDSM or KINK play if you are intoxicated! Yes, you are at a party and there are cocktails – but be responsible and be prepared to be asked to be taken aside, or barred from playing if you are observed to be overly inebriated.

 

  1. Ask for consent:
    1. For any physical touching – during socialization, during play, during after care,…as well as touching other’s implements.
    2. Once given consent is given – If you have a medical issue, it’s your responsibility to speak up. Be your own advocate.

 

  1. Enjoy watching the play and scenes happening around you, but please don’t be a nuisance. If you are a spectator – Don’t speak loudly, interrupt or invade the personal play space defined by the ropes. AND DO NOT YUCK ANYONE’S YUM!

 

  1. While negotiating a Play Scene, short or long, be specific on intent. Always Share hard limits explicitly, soft limits (when you may want to be pushed) and how you’d like to feel, during and after. Include a conversation about aftercare.

 

  1. Look out for each other! We are in this together. Speak up if you see something questionable. Please use your words and alert others, or come and get the DMs or staff, if necessary.

 

  1. If you feel something went amiss – speak up immediately, and DO not wait to get help. Someone will be willing to mediate with you (away from the crowd, in a private area, if required) and assure proper attention is given.

 

  1. Absolutely no photos of people who have not given permission before hand. Keep your phones in your pockets or purses, and if you feel a need to check your phone – step away from the dungeon area to do so.

 

  1. If you have any questions, or it’s a grey area, always feel free to ask. There are no dumb questions concerning the safety of yourself or others.